At work
“I can finish the report or take on the new request today. Which should I prioritise?”
Workplace scriptsAsk for clarification clearly
Say no politely without overexplaining
Set boundaries at work or socially
Request support when you feel stuck
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“I can finish the report or take on the new request today. Which should I prioritise?”
Workplace scripts“Thanks for asking. I am not able to take this on.”
Ways to say no“When you said later, did you mean this afternoon or another day?”
Clarifying a responseWrite down the purpose of the call, the question you need answered and any reference number. Premium Phone Call Mode keeps a prepared call flow in view.
Preparing your opening