Conversation scripts for everyday situations

tonen gives you ready-to-use scripts for moments where words are hard to find. Explore clear, practical examples and choose wording that feels natural to you.

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21 free scripts. Optional Premium. iPhone only.

tonen scripts library on iPhone

Ask for clarification clearly

Say no politely without overexplaining

Set boundaries at work or socially

Request support when you feel stuck

Start with the free tools

Start with 21 free scripts, Box Breathing, 5-4-3-2-1 Grounding and one free use each of Reply Helper, Perspective Helper and Debrief. Premium adds the full script library, Phone Call Mode, Body Scan, Safe Place and 50 requests per week shared across the three Helpers.

Scripts and available Calm exercises work offline. The Helpers need an internet connection. tonen supports English, German, French and Spanish.

Choose words for the situation

Browse a situation in the app, compare Direct, Warm, Firmer and Softer wording, then adapt the details. You can read an example conversation and keep your chosen script visible. These examples are written for this page; the app catalogue may use different wording.

At work

“I can finish the report or take on the new request today. Which should I prioritise?”

Workplace scripts

When you need to say no

“Thanks for asking. I am not able to take this on.”

Ways to say no

When a message is unclear

“When you said later, did you mean this afternoon or another day?”

Clarifying a response

Before a phone call

Write down the purpose of the call, the question you need answered and any reference number. Premium Phone Call Mode keeps a prepared call flow in view.

Preparing your opening